"...trying to change your life
through motivation or positive thinking alone is like driving east
looking for a sunset. Your desire to see the sunset may be very
strong; you may be an incredibly talented driver; you may be moving
very fast toward your goal. But you'll never see the sunset as long
as you're headed in the wrong direction.
If we're unconsciously stopping
ourselves from success (because we inwardly believe that we can't,
shouldn't or aren't allowed to succeed), we can think positively,
write goals and work hard night and day...but we will never let
ourselves succeed."
Back in 2000 I read a book by Noah St. John, called "permission to
succeed." It was the umpteenth self help book I'd read. But it
was different. Noah introduced a concept that deeply startled me and
totally made sense. In a nutshell he pointed out that you can do all
kinds of stuff right but if you are stopping yourself on the
unconscious level, success will be forever out of your grasp.
The key is to find out what it is
that's holding you back beneath the surface. Ultimately this led me
to study NLP. NLP is all about clearing blocks at the unconscious
level.
Noah also introduced me to the
concept of Afformations: "how" and "why" questions that literally
"program" your unconscious mind to create change.
Inspired by both NLP and many of
Noah's concepts I was moved to write "Victory Song" which you can
download for free (limited time only :o)
Now. Fast forward. I'm
participating in a business coaching program by Eben Pagen called
"Altitude" www.GetAltitude.com
and on one of the DVD segments lo and behold one of the seminar
participants who was in the "hot seat" having his web site critiqued
was...Noah St. John.
Eben
asked Noah what one immediately useful technique was that he could
offer to someone seeking fast results. Noah suggested that it would
be a powerful thing to contact someone who had given you great
advice in the past. Call or write them and thank them. Then ask for
another piece of advice or offer to be of service to them in
some way.
So I did. I
wrote to Noah St. John and thanked him for his "why" and "how"
question technique and gave him a copy of the Victory Song. He
graciously answered my e-mail and invited me to perform the song at
some point in the future for one of his seminars.
So your homework for this
week is to do the same thing. Write or call someone who helped you
in the past with advice or guidance. Thank them. Ask them if there's
anything else they'd like to tell you. Ask if there's anything you
can do for them. That's it.
-Mark
p.s. Why do you save next
Tuesday, Jan. 8th at 7:00 pm to join me on a fun phone call?
Free TeleSeminar: Modern Jedi Goal Setting.
Lean how to "program" your future so you
can get what you want more easily and effortlessly. Register
Now to Reserve Your Place
A Life In Song:
What's new this week?
For the second week in a row not much
is new on my music site. :o)
Last week I discovered another cache
of digital song archives that I've been feverishly converting to mp3
so I can upload them this coming weekend.
Live in the New Havne, CT area? Want to help me? I'm looking for an intern or two to assist me with
this massive project.
If you haven't checked out what I've
already got up on the site, have a listen: http://www.MarkShepard.com
You can play them right at the
site or download them to your computer and mp3 players...
Reactions/Reviews Needed! I'm also collecting reviews
and stories of how these songs have impacted your life. If you'd
like to contribute to the site let me know okay? Drop me an e-mail
at: mark@markshepard.com
Based on what I've been learning from
the Altitude coaching program, I've totally reworked my www.ClearFear.com
website. I created step by step instructions and short concise
videos that walk you through the Time Line Anxiety Clearing
technique. This is one of my best tools for helping people (and
myself) to clear anxiety and keep it cleared.
If you or someone you know would like to
gain experience in the world
of online music and information marketing please call or e-mail.
I'm taking applications immediately after the new year.
Save The Date:
Tuesday, January 8th, 7:00 pm
Free TeleSeminar: Modern Jedi Goal Setting.
Lean how to "program" your future so you
can get what you want more easily and effortlessly. Register
Now to Reserve Your Place
Save The Date: July 12-20, 2008 Modern Jedi Mind Mastery NLP
Certification Training
Any
questions? Any comments? Please feel free to e-mail me at
mark@markshepard.com
I'll be back next week with new
songs, new articles and new thoughts to help you "defeat the dark
side in your personal and professional life."
Trust the "Force,"
-Mark
p.s. Why does it work out
better than you can possibly imagine?
Mark Shepard, NLPT
Songwriter, Modern Jedi, Courage Coach...
Certified Master Practitioner and
Trainer of NLP, Ericksonian Hypnosis, Time Line Therapy™, EFT